💔 My Husband Doesn’t Touch Me - 3 Ways to Change That!

First, hear this: You are not alone. This is more common than most wives admit. And it doesn’t mean your marriage is doomed — but it does mean something needs attention

By Sheila Lewis | Faith-Fueled Marriage Coach | Wife for L.I.F.E.

Let’s go there, Sis —You're lying in the same bed… but it feels like you’re miles apart. The hugs have slowed, the kisses are quick — if they come at all. And that once-electric spark? It’s flickering.

You’re asking quietly: “Why doesn’t he touch me anymore?”

Here are 3 faith-fueled, soul-centered ways to help bring touch and tenderness back into your marriage:

💡 1. Check the Connection Before the Contact

Physical touch starts with emotional safety. Ask yourself: Have we connected emotionally today?

Instead of jumping straight to “why aren’t you touching me?” — try softening the atmosphere. Create moments of warmth, laughter, and shared presence. A gentle tone, a warm compliment, or shared prayer can open his heart without pressure.

💬 Try this: “I miss being close to you. Let’s just sit and talk tonight — no distractions.”

Men open up when they feel safe, not scrutinized.

💋 2. Reignite Your Feminine Energy

This is not about fixing yourself to “earn” touch. It’s about rediscovering your God-given magnetism.

When was the last time you flirted with your husband — not as a chore, but as a confident woman who knows she’s still captivating?

A soft scent. A playful smile. A slow touch on his arm when you walk by. These small signals awaken closeness — without words.

🔥 You are still his good thing. Remind yourself of that first.

🙏 3. Pray Boldly — and Then Plant the Seeds

Bring this to God — not just with tears, but with trust. Ask for clarity, softness, and strategy.

Then act on what He shows you. That may mean addressing unresolved tension, showing appreciation, or initiating touch in ways that feel safe and inviting for both of you.

And remember: Reviving touch is a process, not a performance.

🌱 Final Word:

If the distance is deep or painful, don’t suffer in silence. You are not weak for needing affection — God designed marriage for intimate connection. And you're not alone on this journey.

With wisdom, grace, and intentional steps, what feels cold can become warm again. Not because you forced it — but because you watered it.

Ready to feel close again — not just in body, but in heart?

You don’t have to navigate this alone, Sis. I’ve been there — and I’ve walked countless wives through the valley of disconnection back to the warmth of real intimacy. 💞

If you’re ready to rebuild trust, rekindle affection, and revive the closeness you crave…

👉 Let’s talk. Book a free Discovery Call with me today — we’ll pray, process, and plan your next step together. Because you are not invisible. You are valued, seen, and worthy of love that touches your soul.

🌿 Click here to schedule your free call now. Your next chapter of connection starts with one courageous step.

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