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Signature Topics
Marriage Transformation Through L.I.F.E.™
💖Love: Building emotional connection
💞Intimacy: Strengthening relationship
👭Friendship: Nurturing partnerships
💪 Endurance: Creating lasting bonds
52 Years of Marriage Wisdom
📖 Real-life experiences
🛠️ Practical applications
🙏 Faith-based principles
🔄 Transformational stories
"Why Wives Trust My Guidance"
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52 Years of Marriage Wisdom: From One Wife to Another
I said "I do" at 18, and honestly, I had no idea what I was signing up for. Through raising two children, navigating career changes, surviving financial stress, health scares, and all the seasons that test a marriage, I've learned something powerful: every marriage can not only survive but truly thrive.
After five decades of real-life experience—the messy, beautiful, challenging, and rewarding journey of building a lasting partnership—I've discovered the secrets that turn struggling marriages into thriving ones. I've walked through the valleys you're walking through now, and I'm here to tell you there's hope on the other side.
You don't need a perfect marriage to have a thriving one. You just need the right tools, a willing heart, and someone who's been there to show you the way forward. That's exactly what my L.I.F.E. framework does—it meets you where you are and guides you to where you want to be.
Your marriage story isn't over. In fact, your best chapters might just be waiting to be written.
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44 Years of Federal Service Leadership
I understand the unique challenges of being a wife who's also climbing the career ladder. For over four decades in federal service, I navigated the delicate balance of demanding professional responsibilities while nurturing my marriage and raising two children. I know what it feels like to come home exhausted from giving your all at work, only to feel like you have nothing left for your husband. I've lived through the guilt of missing family moments for career obligations and the stress of trying to excel in both worlds without dropping the ball in either. Through my journey, I've developed practical strategies—like my 2x2x2 Rule and career-marriage integration techniques—that helped me thrive professionally while building a marriage that has lasted 52 years. You don't have to choose between career success and marriage fulfillment. You can have both, and I'm here to show you how.
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30+ Years in Women's Organizations & Ministries
For over three decades, I've had the privilege of walking alongside women in their most vulnerable moments—through church ministries, women's organizations, and countless one-on-one conversations where wives have shared their deepest marriage struggles. I've heard it all: the loneliness of feeling disconnected from your husband, the frustration of communication breakdowns, the heartache of watching intimacy fade, and the fear that your marriage might not make it. Through these years of ministry, I've learned that every wife's story is unique, but the solutions often follow similar patterns. I've witnessed incredible transformations when wives are given the right tools, biblical wisdom, and a safe space to process their feelings without judgment. My heart for women's ministry has taught me how to create that sacred space where healing begins—where wives can be honest about their struggles while discovering God's design for thriving marriages. This foundation of serving women has shaped every aspect of my coaching approach, ensuring you'll always feel heard, valued, and supported on your journey.
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Professional Credentials & Leadership Experience
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Advanced Life Coaching Certification
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Current LEADR TEDx Talk Preparation
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Weekly Podcast Host - "Sheila Faye's She Shed
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Community Builder - Private Facebook group for wives
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CEO and Founder of Women Centered 4 Success, LLC
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Hosted the Bi-Annual Pathway to Wellness Women’s Retreat since 2019
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Mistress of Ceremonies for Women’s Ministry Event
Signature Speaking Topics & Audience Outcomes
🌟 Marriage Transformation Through L.I.F.E.™
What Your Audience Will Gain:
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A proven 4-step framework to rebuild connection in any marriage stage
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Practical tools to transform daily interactions from conflict to collaboration
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Strategies to move from "surviving" to "thriving" in their relationships
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Immediate action steps they can implement before they leave the event
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Hope and renewed vision for their marriage's potential
💎 52 Years of Marriage Wisdom: What I Wish I'd Known at 18
What Your Audience Will Gain:
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Time-tested strategies that have sustained a lifetime partnership
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How to navigate major life transitions without losing connection
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The secret to maintaining intimacy through parenting, career changes, and empty nest
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Real-world solutions for common marriage challenges at every stage
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Permission to start fresh, no matter how long they've been married
🦋 The Empty Nester's Guide: Rediscovering Your Marriage After the Kids Leave
What Your Audience Will Gain:
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How to reconnect when it feels like you're strangers again
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Strategies to rebuild friendship and intimacy in this new season
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Tools to create new shared dreams and goals together
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Ways to embrace this transition as an opportunity, not a crisis
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A roadmap for making the next chapter their best chapter yet
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💪 From Federal Service to Marriage Service: Leadership Lessons for Lasting Love
What Your Audience Will Gain:
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How professional leadership skills translate to marriage success
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Communication strategies that work in boardrooms and bedrooms
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Conflict resolution techniques from 44 years of federal experience
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Building partnership dynamics that honor both individuals
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Creating systems and structures that support long-term relationship success
🔄 The Marriage Reset: Starting Fresh Without Starting Over
What Your Audience Will Gain:
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How to break negative patterns without breaking up
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The power of leading with curiosity instead of criticism
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3-minute and 5-minute daily connection rituals that transform relationships
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How to have "heart-level conversations" that actually create change
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Tools to rebuild trust and emotional safety in their marriage
***Every presentation includes: Actionable takeaways, interactive elements, and resources for continued growth beyond the event.
Available Speaking Formats
Keynote Presentations (45–60 minutes)
Interactive Workshops
Panel Discussions
Women’s Ministry Events
Marriage Conferences
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Value Proposition
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Authentic storytelling
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Practical, actionable advice
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Interactive audience engagement
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Faith-based perspective
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Transformational outcomes
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Qualifications & Experience
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Advanced Life Coaching Certification
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44 years of Federal Service
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30+ years in women's organizations
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LEADR TEDx training
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Speaking and coaching credentials
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Previous Speaking Engagements
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📍 Women's Leadership Summit
📍 Church of Grace Annual Conference
📍 Marriage Reset Weekend
📍 TEDx LEADR Session (2020)
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Ideal Audiences
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Women's Ministry Groups
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Marriage Conferences
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Professional Organizations
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Church Events
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Empty Nester Communities
