Healing & Growth

These 3 Actions Will Make Him More Exciting to Be With If you've ever whispered to yourself, "Where did love go?" — I see you, sister. After 52 years of marriage, I understand how relationships can shift from butterflies to bills, from passion to planning, from connection to coexisting. The daily grind of life can dim the spark that once burned so brightly between you and your husband. But here's the truth I want you to hold onto: You can fall back in love with your husband

The marriage you want is not built through one perfect decision or one beautiful wedding day. It is built through the choices you begin making now. I have spoken with many women who created a checklist for the kind of husband they hoped to marry. He should have a good job. He should be kind, patient, responsible, and, of course, good-looking. I still laugh when I remember the day I placed my own “order” with whoever I believed was “the man upstairs.” I was about fifteen years

Choosing to get married may be one of the most important and challenging decisions you will ever make. Some people approach marriage with a checklist filled with expectations. Others feel pressure from family, friends, age, or the fear that time is running out. Years ago, an unmarried woman could even be labeled an “old maid” simply because she had reached a certain age without a husband. But marriage is too sacred to enter because of social pressure, fear, or someone else’s

Healthy marriages don't just happen by accident they grow through intentional choices every day. One of the greatest lessons I learned during my 52 years of marriage is this: Healthy marriages never stop growing. Have you ever noticed that a beautiful garden doesn't stay beautiful all by itself? If it's going to flourish, someone has to tend it. The soil must be prepared. Seeds must be planted. Weeds have to be pulled. Flowers need watering, pruning, and plenty of sunshine. M

A healthy marriage isn't built in one grand moment. It's built through thousands of small choices made with love, grace, faith, and commitment. When I stood before a judge at eighteen years old, promising to love my husband for the rest of my life, I had no idea what those vows truly meant. If I'm honest, I thought marriage was something you figured out once and then happily lived ever after. I quickly discovered that marriage isn't a destination you arrive at. It's a journey

When you let go of unrealistic expectations, you free yourself to truly see and cherish the man you married—not the one you imagined. Let’s be honest: we all walk into marriage with a picture in our minds of what our husband “should” be. Maybe we imagine him as a romantic, always saying the right thing and sweeping us off our feet. Or perhaps we expect him to know exactly what we need without us saying a word. But here’s the truth: no husband is perfect, and no marriage thriv

Through faith and forgiveness, you can experience the healing and restoration your marriage deserves. Let’s start the journey together! Marriage is a beautiful journey, but it’s not without its bumps. Misunderstandings, mistakes, and even intentional hurts are inevitable because we’re human—and humans aren’t perfect. The good news is that forgiveness is the key to healing those wounds, and through faith, we can learn to forgive even when it feels impossible. Forgiveness isn’t

Intimacy is not a lost art; it’s a sacred space—and it’s still available to you. By Coach Sheila Faye You love him. You live with him....